12 Nov, 2011
How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend or Girlfriend Back Using The Magic of Making Up
Many people will come up with the advice to just forget about your ex boyfriend or girlfriend and just move on, well there is good news! There are some effective ways to win your ex boyfriend or gilfriend back and avoid failed relationships.
If you are in pain and confused?
There are lots of things you can do to get back your ex. Here are just a few of them.
#1. Take the focus off of getting back together.
No one wants to make a decision when they feel pressured. If your partner has been resistant to a decision on getting back together, remove the pressure and focus on something else instead,
Just try to have a good time and be yourself. Your ex fell in love with you at one time and they will be more likely to love you again when they see the great person they fell in love with originally.
Really, I can’t say this enough. One of the things you have going for you is that your ex has * already * fallen in love with you. At one time, he / she fell in love with the person you are. Your relationship may have brought out many things, both good and bad, but at the core, you are still that person your ex fell in love with.
#2. If your ex has a new love interest, present a positive contrast.
Well first off, you should always be yourself. But be your “best self.”
The best way you can do that is by not competing with your ex’s new partner. That will only make the situation worse.
When you are with your beloved, be positive and focus on having a good time and sharing positive experiences. If you are consistently having good experiences, your ex will enjoy a certain feeling of comfort and joy around you.
#3. Don’t do anything which puts your ex on the defensive. This is truly counterproductive to any efforts of getting back together.
Be careful what questions you ask, especially personal ones. At a minimum, this leads to your ex feeling uncomfortable and at most it can lead to an argument or an unpleasant experience. And your ex will not likely want to be with you if they associate you with negative experiences.
A much better road to travel is one without negative associations. When your ex can be at ease to be themselves and free to have a good time with you – they will want to be with you more often. This road is the one that leads to a reunion!
Now You Can Stop Your Break Up, Divorce or Lovers Rejection…Even If Your Situation Seems Hopeless!
Here’s some good news…
Did you know that most relationships CAN be salvaged? You may find it difficult to believe that almost every break up for whatever reason…infidelity, plain old lost passion, loss of interest, a stolen heart and worse…even the worst situations you can imagine…like men serving prison sentences have salvaged their relationships. Yes, even Ex-cons have got back together with girlfriends and wives after being away for years!
For more tips, resources, and inspiration on how to get your ex boyfriend or girlfriend back, visit The Magic of Making Up!